We listen to people every day. People have something to say, something they are passionate about. Often when we listen to someone speaking, we want to hear their message, but the way they say it can get in the way of that message.
A good speaker can deliver a message. We may or may not remember it weeks later, but a great speaker weaves a story that inspires us. We can feel how the message will in essence change us.
As a Toastmaster since 2000, I’ve given many speeches. Some of course were about me – who I am and what I’ve experienced. Others were about my work, my dating life, or my plans for the future. And still others, were meant to inspire. Becoming a great speaker isn’t something you can do overnight. You need to search for what makes you get up every morning and what drives you. What you’re most passionate about. Then speak about it – often.
I certainly hear a lot of people speaking; I hear the words they are saying, and I know that words can have meaning. However, I am not sure I’m always listening to what they mean to say. It’s easy to trip up on the use of the wrong words; or even the filler words they use over and over again. You know, the so’s, um’s. ah’s…those pesky thought breakers; speech stealers.
Today if you’re reading this, I hope you’ll at least try to pay attention to what you say. Think mindfully about how to speak with others and make a conscious effort to change your bad speaking habits. Taking a pause to say nothing at all while you plan your next words might help others stop and listen to what you’re saying instead of what you can’t get out of your mouth.
Speaking passionately about something you know and understand should be effortless. Just try it! Speak with passion, and without the words that are not helping you get your message across to those you want to inspire!
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